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==Question: If same-sex attraction is something that occurs naturally, why can't God and the Church accept it by allowing sealings of LGBT couples?==
==Question: If same-sex attraction is something that occurs naturally, why can't God and the Church accept it by allowing sealings of LGBT couples?==
===The Fall of Adam and Eve brought the entire human family the opportunity to overcome its effects. Christ asks us all to take up our cross and follow him===
===The Question/Criticism===
Some have brought up the sensitive question of why gay marriage and other LGB relationships can't be accepted by God and the Church if the characteristic is innate and even occurs in nature. Some struggle to find a purpose in the command to not engage in homosexual behavior. It is with that intent that this article is written.
Some have brought up the sensitive question of why gay marriage and other LGBT relationships can't be accepted by God and the Church if the characteristic is innate. Some struggle to find a purpose in the command to not engage in homosexual behavior. Some secularist critics and even members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who support same-sex marriage do so as a means of openly and directly challenging the Church's opposition to same-sex marriage relationships and marriages. This article examines that sensitive question/criticism.


It should be first noted that those who make this argument commit the [https://www.fairmormon.org/answers/Logical_fallacies/Page_3 naturalistic fallacy] in logic. Just because it occurs in nature, that does not, by necessity, make the behavior inherently correct.
It should be first noted that those who make this argument commit the [https://www.fairmormon.org/answers/Logical_fallacies/Page_3 naturalistic fallacy] in logic. Just because it occurs in nature, that does not, by necessity, make the behavior inherently correct.


Furthermore, those who state that the Church has to accept LGBT sealings in temples because it is something that someone is born with are trying to refute a religious doctrine with nature when the doctrine itself is not based on nature but what one should do with what occurs in nature. The Fall of Adam and Eve brought with it the opportunity to overcome its effects. Humans were placed on this earth to have dominion over it and to take care of it (Genesis 1:26). With the fall, we now have other things to overcome. The nature that we experience today is fallen which is a good thing! We get to learn the difference between good and evil and overcome that evil (2 Nephi 2:25). Nature is both chaotic and orderly. To those parts of nature that don't have order, God has revealed to us through prophets how to properly bring them into an order that can provide us and all of God's past, present, and future children the best chance at obtaining the most happiness. God created a man and woman to bring those children to the earth as part of an efficient and secure order that could bring about that happiness. This is why the sanctity of heterosexual marriage is defended so vigorously within the Church.  
Secondly, it is important to understand that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints does not oppose same-sex marriage because it wishes to discriminate against LGBTQAIP+-identifying individuals. On the contrary, the Church values their service and hopes that they will find meaningful service within the Church organization. Additionally, the Church espouses a particularly detailed set of doctrines&mdash;believed to have come through divine revelation&mdash;that outline the purpose of our pre-mortal, mortal, and post-mortal life that make accepting LGBT sealings within the Church virtually impossible without surrendering core doctrinal values and propositions.


===The doctrine of eternal marriage between man and woman is not based on scientifically observed phenomena from a fallen world, but an ideal that was experienced in the pre-existence, at creation, and what the ideal will be post-resurrection/exaltation.===
Many people fail to recognize that the doctrine of eternal marriage between men and women is not based on scientifically observed phenomena from a fallen world, but on an ideal that was experienced in the pre-existence, at creation, and what the ideal will be post-resurrection/exaltation.


====Doctrine from the Pre-existence====
In the pre-existence, our Heavenly Parents [https://www.lds.org/scriptures/tg/spirit-creation?lang=eng created] us (exactly how we're not sure and don't have an official doctrine on the point)&mdash;male and female&mdash; from spirit matter (sometimes referred to as "intelligence" Abraham 3:21).


Some argue that since "God created them that way" that this justifies indulging in homosexual behavior. They believe that, with or without the consent of the Church, that they can do this--perhaps believing someday that the Church will accept this behavior. Some cite the doctrine of prophetic fallibility to claim that, one day, the doctrine will change and that the prophets have spoken wrong on this issue. However, we have no evidence from scripture that God creates all of us. Additionally, we have no evidence of a spirits with homosexual sexual orientation. We have no reason to believe that the spirits would have homosexual orientation even if such isn't revealed at this time. If we are created in the image of the Father and Mother who are said to be our spiritual and physical creators, and if they only created male and female according to each creation account to multiply and replenish the earth, and if we have evidence in the scriptures cited for male and female spirits, then why should we expect there to be homosexual orientation in the pre-existence or in the eternities? Critics will have to strain credulity to answer such questions from Latter-day Saint theology. God is the Father of our Spirits, he created Adam and Eve, and Jesus is the only begotten of the Father in the flesh. Our bodies, however, are products of a fallen world that will be made perfect at the resurrection and judgment. Those who do not seek to understand same-sex attraction within the greater scope of the Plan of Salvation are not sufficiently wrestling with [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theodicy theodicy] (the LDS theodicy being laid out in 2 Nephi 2:11-13 primarily but strengthened by the doctrine of [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Felix_culpa Fortunate Fall] and our belief that evil has always existed--God not being the source of it [Moses 4:1, 3; Abraham 3:27-28]). This is simply one of the effects of the fall that we have to overcome. Everyone has them. Christ asks us to take up our cross (Matthew 10:28; 16:24; Luke 9:23; 14:27;) and overcome the natural man (Mosiah 3:19). Will one presume that someone is created with Downe's syndrome, autism, depression, anxiety, depression, etc.?
====Doctrine from Creation====
We know from repeated statements in scripture that all people&mdash;male and female&mdash; were created in the image and likeness of God (Genesis 1:26; Mosiah 7:27, Ether 3:15, Doctrine and Covenants 20:18, Moses 1:6; 2:26, 6:9, Abraham 4:26). Some have stated that since the translation is rendered as "God" that this suggests some gender neutrality in the scriptures. This is implausible.  


[https://www.lds.org/scriptures/bofm/mosiah/3.19?lang=eng Mosiah 3:19]
[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Coogan Michael Coogan]:
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19 For the natural man is an enemy to God, and has been from the fall of Adam, and will be, forever and ever, unless he yields to the enticings of the Holy Spirit, and putteth off the natural man and becometh a saint through the atonement of Christ the Lord, and becometh as a child, submissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon him, even as a child doth submit to his father.</blockquote>


This opposition to homosexual behavior should not be grounds, however, for ''any'' kind of insensitivity, violence, or other discrimination of people who identify as LGB. Members faced with helping LGB-identifying persons to reconcile their faith with their sexuality should do so with a spirit of compromise, love, and discernment. As we listen to each other and seek to learn from one another, we can grow stronger together in our commitment to follow the Savior.
<blockquote>The traditional translation is "in the image of God he created them." This does not entirely make sense, since the last line speaks of "male and female," and God in the Bible is not androgynous but male.


<b>FairMormon joins The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in the unequivocal condemnation of discrimination of LGB-identifying people for their sexual orientation.</b>
An alternative is to understand elohim in the second line in its plural sense: humans are male and female in the image of the gods&mdash;because the gods are male and female, humans are as well. Which male and female deities are the model? Although the entire pantheon is a possibility, the divine couple, Yahweh and his goddess consort, are more likely.<ref>Michael Coogan, "God and Sex: What the Bible Really Says" (New York City, NY: Grand Central, 2010), 175.</ref></blockquote>
 
Thus, "God", our creator, may be more properly referred to as "Gods" (Abraham 4:1). These Gods, according to Dr. Coogan, are a male and female deity. This male and female deity would then be the creator of our spirits since "God" is the father of our spirits (Num. 16:22; 27:16; Mal. 2:10; Matt. 6:9; Eph. 4:6; Heb. 12:9). Thus we learn something about what the ideal will be post-resurrection/exaltation.
 
These Gods created the mortal tabernacles Adam and Eve&mdash;a male and female&mdash; and provided spirits to inhabit their bodies. God commanded Adam and Eve to multiply and replenish the earth. The reasons are obvious as to why a male and female would be commanded to do such: they're the only ones who can procreate without the need of additional technological and/or vicarious/proxy assistance.
 
====Doctrine from The Fall====
We learn that, after the fall, that thorns, thistles, and noxious weeds would torment man. We learn that nature would become chaotic in some ways and divert from the creational ideal. Thus nature has an order to it, but not complete order. These revelations that we have received about creation remind us what the ideal was during the pre-existence, at creation, and what the ideal will be post-resurrection/exaltation.
 
During this time of the fall, we have no evidence that God creates any of our bodies. Our biological parents, living in this fallen world, create(d) our bodies. Those bodies are subject to the affects of the Fall. We only have evidence that God created our spirits and the bodies of Adam and Eve. This is simply one of the effects of the fall that we have to overcome. Everyone has them. Christ asks us to take up our cross (Matthew 10:28; 16:24; Luke 9:23; 14:27;) and overcome the natural man (Mosiah 3:19).  Will one presume that someone is created with Downe's syndrome, autism, depression, anxiety, depression, etc.?
 
====Doctrine from Resurrection====
We know that at resurrection, our bodies will be perfected and removed from every corruption, ailment, etc (Alma 11:43-45).
 
====Doctrine from Exaltation====
We learn that upon resurrection, we will be judged. When we are judged, and if we obtain the celestial kingdom, we will become Gods and go on to have everlasting increase. This is only done with husband and wife&mdash;male and female&mdash;sealed in holy temples of the Lord (D&C 132:18-20).
 
Thus we see that the doctrine of eternal marriage between men and women cannot truly be harmed by those that identify as LGBTQAIP+. Our doctrine is based upon what we believe God has revealed about the ideals manifested at pre-existence, creation, and what will be manifested once we are resurrected and exalted. We see that the disagreement is not based upon what is observed. All of us can observe the existence of these people. Where we (in this case members of the Church and secularists and/or progressive members) disagree is about where one's epistemic assumptions should lie i.e. where to turn to for knowledge about morality and/or ideals to categorize nature with.
 
===The Argument from Personal Revelation===
There are often claims from members of the Church who identify as LGBTQAIP+ and other members of the Church who support same-sex marriage that they have received personal revelation that the Church is wrong about this issue and that it will eventually accept LGBT sealings, relationships, and so on in the future. Since this is a topic that involves the ontological makeup of the entire human family, this type of revelation does not lie within the stewardship of those that identify as transgender or those that support transgenderism, but with the prophet of God (D&C 28: 2-4; 42:53-58; 112:20). Thus, it is more than likely that these individuals have been deceived by false Spirits (D&C 50:1-2) and their testimonies should be disregarded. Some have argued against this using the example of Cornelius who received revelation that he would receive baptism before Peter received the revelation to take the Gospel to the Gentiles (Acts 10). Yet there are two problems:
#The Savior had already given the command to the apostles to go to all the world and preach the Gospel to every creature and baptize them (Mark 16:15-16; Mormon 9:22-24<ref>Be sure to see our [[Question: Why does part of the longer ending of Mark show up in the Book of Mormon?|article]] on the longer ending of Mark.</ref>). Thus, this wasn't necessarily a question of what but of when. This was not a revelation about essential missiological outlook, it was a revelation of when to execute it. Thus the example is not analogous to this situation.
#Even if we were to assume that a revelation to Cornelius signaled the future change of the Church in ancient times, that is certainly not how the Lord has wished to distribute revelation in modern times (D&C 28: 2-4; 42:53-58; 112:20).
 
===The Argument from Priesthood Restriction===
As an additional means of justifying opposition to the Church's position on same sex marriage, some point to the pre-1978 restrictions on people of African descent from holding the Church's priesthood or officiating in temple ordinances, including the Church's disavowed explanations for the restrictions. If the Church was wrong about their explanations for that, could it be wrong about this issue? This has been examined in another article on the FairMormon wiki.
 
{{Main|Question: Isn't the Mormon opposition to same-sex marriage hypocritical, considering that they used to ban black from holding the priesthood until 1978?}}
 
As a final word which we wish to emphasize:
 
<b>FairMormon joins The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in unequivocally condemning the discrimination of any of God's children based upon gender, race, sexual identity and/or orientation, and/or religious affiliation.</b>.


{{Seealso|Question: Since there are people that are born intersex, experience gender dysphoria, or identify as transgender, does this invalidate the Latter-day Saint ("Mormon") doctrine of eternal male and/or female gender?}}
{{Seealso|Question: Since there are people that are born intersex, experience gender dysphoria, or identify as transgender, does this invalidate the Latter-day Saint ("Mormon") doctrine of eternal male and/or female gender?}}
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Revision as of 21:31, 7 October 2019


Question: If same-sex attraction is something that occurs naturally, why can't God and the Church accept it by allowing sealings of LGBT couples?

The Question/Criticism

Some have brought up the sensitive question of why gay marriage and other LGBT relationships can't be accepted by God and the Church if the characteristic is innate. Some struggle to find a purpose in the command to not engage in homosexual behavior. Some secularist critics and even members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who support same-sex marriage do so as a means of openly and directly challenging the Church's opposition to same-sex marriage relationships and marriages. This article examines that sensitive question/criticism.

It should be first noted that those who make this argument commit the naturalistic fallacy in logic. Just because it occurs in nature, that does not, by necessity, make the behavior inherently correct.

Secondly, it is important to understand that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints does not oppose same-sex marriage because it wishes to discriminate against LGBTQAIP+-identifying individuals. On the contrary, the Church values their service and hopes that they will find meaningful service within the Church organization. Additionally, the Church espouses a particularly detailed set of doctrines—believed to have come through divine revelation—that outline the purpose of our pre-mortal, mortal, and post-mortal life that make accepting LGBT sealings within the Church virtually impossible without surrendering core doctrinal values and propositions.

The doctrine of eternal marriage between man and woman is not based on scientifically observed phenomena from a fallen world, but an ideal that was experienced in the pre-existence, at creation, and what the ideal will be post-resurrection/exaltation.

Many people fail to recognize that the doctrine of eternal marriage between men and women is not based on scientifically observed phenomena from a fallen world, but on an ideal that was experienced in the pre-existence, at creation, and what the ideal will be post-resurrection/exaltation.

Doctrine from the Pre-existence

In the pre-existence, our Heavenly Parents created us (exactly how we're not sure and don't have an official doctrine on the point)—male and female— from spirit matter (sometimes referred to as "intelligence" Abraham 3:21).

Doctrine from Creation

We know from repeated statements in scripture that all people—male and female— were created in the image and likeness of God (Genesis 1:26; Mosiah 7:27, Ether 3:15, Doctrine and Covenants 20:18, Moses 1:6; 2:26, 6:9, Abraham 4:26). Some have stated that since the translation is rendered as "God" that this suggests some gender neutrality in the scriptures. This is implausible.

Michael Coogan:

The traditional translation is "in the image of God he created them." This does not entirely make sense, since the last line speaks of "male and female," and God in the Bible is not androgynous but male. An alternative is to understand elohim in the second line in its plural sense: humans are male and female in the image of the gods—because the gods are male and female, humans are as well. Which male and female deities are the model? Although the entire pantheon is a possibility, the divine couple, Yahweh and his goddess consort, are more likely.[1]

Thus, "God", our creator, may be more properly referred to as "Gods" (Abraham 4:1). These Gods, according to Dr. Coogan, are a male and female deity. This male and female deity would then be the creator of our spirits since "God" is the father of our spirits (Num. 16:22; 27:16; Mal. 2:10; Matt. 6:9; Eph. 4:6; Heb. 12:9). Thus we learn something about what the ideal will be post-resurrection/exaltation.

These Gods created the mortal tabernacles Adam and Eve—a male and female— and provided spirits to inhabit their bodies. God commanded Adam and Eve to multiply and replenish the earth. The reasons are obvious as to why a male and female would be commanded to do such: they're the only ones who can procreate without the need of additional technological and/or vicarious/proxy assistance.

Doctrine from The Fall

We learn that, after the fall, that thorns, thistles, and noxious weeds would torment man. We learn that nature would become chaotic in some ways and divert from the creational ideal. Thus nature has an order to it, but not complete order. These revelations that we have received about creation remind us what the ideal was during the pre-existence, at creation, and what the ideal will be post-resurrection/exaltation.

During this time of the fall, we have no evidence that God creates any of our bodies. Our biological parents, living in this fallen world, create(d) our bodies. Those bodies are subject to the affects of the Fall. We only have evidence that God created our spirits and the bodies of Adam and Eve. This is simply one of the effects of the fall that we have to overcome. Everyone has them. Christ asks us to take up our cross (Matthew 10:28; 16:24; Luke 9:23; 14:27;) and overcome the natural man (Mosiah 3:19). Will one presume that someone is created with Downe's syndrome, autism, depression, anxiety, depression, etc.?

Doctrine from Resurrection

We know that at resurrection, our bodies will be perfected and removed from every corruption, ailment, etc (Alma 11:43-45).

Doctrine from Exaltation

We learn that upon resurrection, we will be judged. When we are judged, and if we obtain the celestial kingdom, we will become Gods and go on to have everlasting increase. This is only done with husband and wife—male and female—sealed in holy temples of the Lord (D&C 132:18-20).

Thus we see that the doctrine of eternal marriage between men and women cannot truly be harmed by those that identify as LGBTQAIP+. Our doctrine is based upon what we believe God has revealed about the ideals manifested at pre-existence, creation, and what will be manifested once we are resurrected and exalted. We see that the disagreement is not based upon what is observed. All of us can observe the existence of these people. Where we (in this case members of the Church and secularists and/or progressive members) disagree is about where one's epistemic assumptions should lie i.e. where to turn to for knowledge about morality and/or ideals to categorize nature with.

The Argument from Personal Revelation

There are often claims from members of the Church who identify as LGBTQAIP+ and other members of the Church who support same-sex marriage that they have received personal revelation that the Church is wrong about this issue and that it will eventually accept LGBT sealings, relationships, and so on in the future. Since this is a topic that involves the ontological makeup of the entire human family, this type of revelation does not lie within the stewardship of those that identify as transgender or those that support transgenderism, but with the prophet of God (D&C 28: 2-4; 42:53-58; 112:20). Thus, it is more than likely that these individuals have been deceived by false Spirits (D&C 50:1-2) and their testimonies should be disregarded. Some have argued against this using the example of Cornelius who received revelation that he would receive baptism before Peter received the revelation to take the Gospel to the Gentiles (Acts 10). Yet there are two problems:

  1. The Savior had already given the command to the apostles to go to all the world and preach the Gospel to every creature and baptize them (Mark 16:15-16; Mormon 9:22-24[2]). Thus, this wasn't necessarily a question of what but of when. This was not a revelation about essential missiological outlook, it was a revelation of when to execute it. Thus the example is not analogous to this situation.
  2. Even if we were to assume that a revelation to Cornelius signaled the future change of the Church in ancient times, that is certainly not how the Lord has wished to distribute revelation in modern times (D&C 28: 2-4; 42:53-58; 112:20).

The Argument from Priesthood Restriction

As an additional means of justifying opposition to the Church's position on same sex marriage, some point to the pre-1978 restrictions on people of African descent from holding the Church's priesthood or officiating in temple ordinances, including the Church's disavowed explanations for the restrictions. If the Church was wrong about their explanations for that, could it be wrong about this issue? This has been examined in another article on the FairMormon wiki.

As a final word which we wish to emphasize:

FairMormon joins The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in unequivocally condemning the discrimination of any of God's children based upon gender, race, sexual identity and/or orientation, and/or religious affiliation..


Notes

  1. Michael Coogan, "God and Sex: What the Bible Really Says" (New York City, NY: Grand Central, 2010), 175.
  2. Be sure to see our article on the longer ending of Mark.